Bittersweet...the new addition

Posted by Heartbroken107 about 2 years ago 953 views, 9 replies

So, one week from today I will bring "Fred" home.  He is a sweet little fawn pug.    It has been almost five months since Charlie has been gone.  I still miss him terribly, and I think I'll always miss him.  But, it is time...It is a surprise for my children and they are going to be soooooooo excited!  I am excited too, but it is bittersweet.  A puppy would not have been in our plan had Charlie not died.  He was our little "Rockstar" as stated on his water bowl!  He was very content being the only dog! 

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predatorpug (about 2 years ago)

Congrats on the new addition.  I know you're still hurting...it just doesn't go away.  But your going to be a great parent! And you will love Fred....I just know it.  I am so happy that you are giving Fred a home worthy of a pug!!!!! lol.....sending happy thoughts your way...vicki and misaki

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Rita (about 2 years ago)

I am so happy you are getting Fred, Charlie will always have a spot in your heart, but I am sure Fred will help fill the emptiness and you and your family will enjoy him. 

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JanandSass (about 2 years ago)

Congratulations on your new baby!  He will not replace your Charlie, but he will be a totally different personality, with his own lovable nature and hiw own quirks!  Pugs are just like people, they are all different.  Enjoy the differences and celebrate the similarities - the main one being the love that they give you.

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KatB (about 2 years ago)

I am very very happy for you. And I know your children will be so excited. Charlie will always be with you. But I think he would be very pleased that you are giving your love to another pug. He wouldn't have wanted you to stay sad. Congradulations on the new arrival. Can't wait to hear all about the new pugger. Will be waiting along side you and hoping to see lots of pictures. God Bless.

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Frankie2009 (over 1 year ago)

That is good news. Just know Charlie is smiling down from the Rainbow bridge, and happy that you are taking Fred in, to give him the same loving home, that he had.....you are doing it in honor of Charlie....good for you, and the family....let us know how the puglet days are!  

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Laurie222 (over 1 year ago)

I had my LuLu for 14 years & when she passed away, I thought it would be a long time before I could get another dog.  But 5 months later we had Chloe & she helped me SO much with the grieving process.  I wasn't sure if I could ever love a dog like I loved my LuLu but Chloe & Charlie melted my heart & I love them both so much.  

Good luck with your new pup!!!

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docand (over 1 year ago)

Congrats on the new fur baby....  Your situation is the same as mine was this time(about) last year.  My little Lexi will never replace the memories of my Gretta, but will help heal the wounds of her death.  It was the best decision I could have made at the time.  Remember that memories and love  are forever........                                Doc and his girls

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elgor (over 1 year ago)

When my cat, Bailey, died I thought I'd never get another pet ... I loved hm so much! It ws about the same amount of time (he died in October and we got Zoe in March) and one look at her precious face I was falling head over heels in love with her. And because she was so fun and loveable ... we now have 4 precious pug babies. Just like you will never forget Charlie ... I will never forget my Bailey, but I just cannot imagine life without these pugs! I was so sad and now there is so much laughter and joy in our lives! Pug Hugs ~Ellen

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PuppyJules (over 1 year ago)

Just wanted to give my condolences on the loss of your pug.  It is hard to get another dog after one has passed.  I've struggled with disliking a new dog because it wasn't the one that passed, which made me realize that I'd gotten another dog much too soon (literally weeks) after my dog's passing.  I worked through it over time and now adore the dog that was new at that time (not my new pug, this was last year).  If you've given yourself enough time so that you aren't seeking relief from the loss in this new pug, you should be okay.  A new one does nothing to ease the loss of the relationship you had with the lost dog, but they give you new love, new hope at loving again.  A fresh start, new memories to be made, and slowly the light comes back into your heart again.  Best wishes to you and your family as you continue to heal, and grow with your new furbaby.  You sound like a very loving, caring person, and I'm sure you will have a lot of joy to come!