I was in the health & Care Forms-now I’m here in Grieving! My heart is broken!

I had to move from the Health & Care form to the Grieving form, I lost my little boy yesterday after 2 weeks of him being very sick. He died from complications from the surgery to see if he had blockages in his intestines. Nothing was showing up on the x-rays but Nibbler was not getting better, so the Doc did surgery to see what was going on inside. Doc found string and something hard that had bunched up 2 feet of his intestines. Doc had to remove the 2 feet because they were dead. After Nibbler was recovering from surgery he stopped breathing. The doctor worked for 20 min to try and bring him back. My baby dog is gone. My heart is broken, my poor boys are inconsolable (I have 4 sons). This is the worst! I am more sad then I even have words. I loved Nibbler like a child. My boys say they feel like one of their brothers died. I'm so so sad. Nibber was only 3 years old.

I can't believe he isn't here. Coming home is the worst! he was not here to greet us.

I will never be happy again. My heart hurts, I can't stop crying. Nibbler was my baby.

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predatorpug (over 2 years ago)

I am so sorry that your baby is gone.....I am heartbroken to hear this...my prayers are with you and your boys.........

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RosienMikeysMom (over 2 years ago)

shomer...i know this is a very hard time for you but please don't say you will never be happy again. i know there is pain in your heart right now and you feel like it will never go away, but in time, you will remember all the joy nibbler gave you and your family and you will find yourself smiling. too often, we think about the death of loved ones instead of celebrating and remembering their lives. nibbler would not want you to be sad, he gave you such joy, please remember that. i'm not saying that you shouldn't grieve, you have to, but your sons especially have to know that there is still and will be joy in your life and theirs again. cry, hold on to each other, talk about nibbler and maybe in the future, you will decide to get another pug...and remember the happy times. a pug's purpose in life is to make us happy...and i'm sure nibbler would still want you to be. hugs to you.

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wilk5 (over 2 years ago)

I know exactly how you feel, we had to make the heart wrenching decision to put our pug Hannah down on Dec 6th. She was a rescue dog, we fought hard to bring her back from the brink of death when we got her. She too was only 3 but she kept having seizures and nothing was working, she had several the morning of the 6th and the Vet told us we had ran out of options, I felt like I was dying, the pain was so intense, I still am grieving the loss of my baby. I still come home and expect to see her. Your in my thoughts and prayers. HUGS!!!

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KatB (over 2 years ago)

OMG! That poor baby. Shomer55, I am sooooooo sorry to hear this. This is just terrible. You have my deepest sympathy, and prayers of comfort are on there way.

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kbailey (over 2 years ago)

I can't even imagine your pain. Our pugs truly r our children. You can take comfort in the fact that Nibbler obviously experienced a loving and caring home for his short life. I will pray for you and your family

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JanandSass (over 2 years ago)

Oh, what can I say - it's so horrible to lose a baby so suddenly.  It is always hard, but when we are not expecting it, it comes as such a shock and disbelief.  Shomer, we are so sorry for your loss, and grieve with you.  Our babys give us unconditional love, that's why it's so hard.  Sending prayerd for you at this difficult time. 

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dollila (over 2 years ago)

Shomer, I'm so sorry for you and your family's loss. Nibbler was such sweet looking and handsome guy. Just know that you did everything you could for him. He was so sick and probably in a lot of pain, and now he is finally free from it. I don't know how old your boys are, but maybe it would help you all to have a little memorial service for Nibbler, so everyone can talk about him, the fun times & favorite memories, and express their grief. The coming months are going to be hard, but you'll all get through it together. Our prayers are continuing for you & your family...

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larrydavid (over 2 years ago)

shomer, 

my heartfelt sorries, this is the day i know will come at one time or another and i dread it. i feel so strongly for your loss. i imagine when that dreaded day comes i'll find peace knowing how much i loved him, did everything i could for him and that he knew that. Find peace in the love that you gave.

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Frankie2009 (over 2 years ago)

  we are sorry to hear that,,,,,it is always hard to lose a Furkid...no matter how we lose them. ANd yes your sons did lose a brother. Dog have a way of making a lasting impresion in our lives. All of us on here have lost Dogs in the past and totally understand the emotions and greif that go with it....take time to greive and know we all suppport yuo and pray for you and your family and are truly sorry this happened. I still miss my "dusty" how past 8 months ago and it has become easier I have more smiles about her that cries, and my Frankie has helped me get over the loss as well.

Try to focus on the goos times..it will help. Also take all the time you need to greive....you will heal and be happy again, with knowing he is not really gone he is at the Rainbow bridge, playing like only pugs can...waiting for his faimliy to come, but every now and then he will check up on you to make sure your are happy and his brothers are ok as well. You will know he is around...it maybe a small sign, but he will make it happen for his family. He does want you to be sad but happy,

with all of our love

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Shomer55 (over 2 years ago)

I am still so sad, I see all the places Nibbler used to sit, sleep and play. My heart is broken. This is the worst!

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Laurie222 (over 2 years ago)

I am so sorry for your loss.  It is devastating to lose a beloved pet.  They are our children for sure!  You and your family will be in my thoughts & prayers.  I have lost 2 pugs in the past & it was awful.  My daughter, husband & I made a scrap book for our pups after they died & we pull that book out to this very day & look at the pictures & read the memories & I touch the pieces of fur we saved...it brings me great comfort.

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Keg1986 (over 2 years ago)

I am so sorry to hear your loss, I hope in time you can smile again at the good times, sending lots of love and hugs to you and your boys xxxx ()()()

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Shomer55 (about 2 years ago)

We have our new boy Mojo. I love him so much. But I still miss Nibbler every day. He was my baby. Dang this is hard. Every time I miss Nibbler, I pick up my little Mojo and hug him tight.

Sometimes I will talk to Nibbler as if he is next to me. Is that crazy. I miss him.

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docand (about 2 years ago)

We're so happy for you.   My little Gretta passed away in Oct. of last year.  It took me 3 weeks to find Lexi, to fill the huge hole that was in my heart.  It didn't all just go away, but it made it alot easier.  I still feel very sad every time  think of Gretta and how hard we tried to keep her allive, but Lexi is here!!   Good Luck and Congatuations!!!!!!  Doc and his girls

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Rita (about 2 years ago)

So sorry for your loss, it is so hard to lose a pet, they really are our babies.  I am glad you have Mojo,. it really will help. I waited several months before I got Zena after I lost Patches. And getting her was the best thing I could of done. Hugs and Prayers to you and your family. Rita and Zena

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RosienMikeysMom (about 2 years ago)

oh, i'm so happy for you! pugs have a habit of chasing the blues away. i know my rosie did after my beloved casey passed away. i still think about my casey and what a wonderful companion she was but now we talk about her smiling about things she did. casey passed in february of 2006...but she lives in my heart forever.

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cammicam (about 2 years ago)

I really hurt for your and your family's loss I cannot imagine the pain you are going through, our family is praying for you and will continue to. 

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Sofezmom (about 2 years ago)

So sorry to hear about little Nibbler. I am glad that you have Mojo to make you smile and help take away the sadness. Can't imagine...hugs and prayers....

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JanandSass (about 2 years ago)

Oh, Shomer, congratulations on your new baby!  Let's have lots of photos!  You will always remember Nibbler, he will always be in your heart's special place. 

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kevers (about 2 years ago)

This is soooo sad...I literally am so sad for you...I can't even imagine....you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers...what a sweet, sweet boy. Rest in Peace.

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susan winchester (12 months ago)

i am so sorry for your loss i know how you are greiving i just lost my baby too complications with her liver i still cry they can sure make you miss them my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family .

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HANK2008 (12 months ago)

I'm so sorry for you and your family. I wish I had words to express my grief for this loss.

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rumccormick (12 months ago)

I am very sorry for you and your family, it is so hard to lose our fur babies. I will keep you in my thoughts.